The truth is, everybody struggles. And everybody struggles with different issues. The only difference is between those who choose to struggle alone versus those who reach out, get into community, and get help.
There is no choice to struggle or not struggle. Struggle is a state of being, it is a sign of life. The choice is in how you will go through the battle. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather not be a loan wolf, because when it comes to the wars of this life, it takes an army.